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WHY CONSIDER COMPANIONABILITY FIRST?
Since we cannot change our ability to be "natural friends" with someone after we marry them, it is very important that we consider our companionability BEFORE we even get involved with him or her!
Just as your close friends of the same gender are few in number, so too, only a few select members of the opposite gender are likely to be truly "natural companions" to you.
When your Mom told you; "Love is blind." she was right! Modern sociology proves her point!
The fact is; you can fall in love with and marry someone who is a TOTAL MISMATCH to yourself, just as easily as you can fall in love with and marry someone who is PERFECTLY COMPANIONABLE to you. It has more to do with chemistry, or the short-term "eros-type love," than it has to do with one's judgment.
People who meet and marry someone whom they have met by "random chance" are, of course, totally in love on their wedding day. They may even spend a lifetime together and never end up in a divorce. However, odds are slim (about 5%) that they will be a truly companionable couple throughout life.
While random chance meetings might work in shallow friendships, long-term happiness in a marriage occurs ONLY when a genuine natural friendship at the core level exists between the marriage partners.
The fact is, most divorces in America now, occur between partners who have met by "random chance" i.e., at school, at work, etc. These are people who have gotten married without regard to their "natural companionability" to each other.
As the use of this system, and of other informational singles' systems became more common among Americans, the divorce rate began to fall. The U.S. Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics report a decline in divorce that mirrors perfectly the progress of the information-age.
Divorce in America reached its peak in 1981, at the dawn of the information age, with 5.3 divorces per 1000 population per year. As the "information-age marriage" slowly but steadily gained popularity, the divorce rates dropped correspondingly to an improved 4.2 per thousand per year, and the trend continues downward.
CSI claims only a small part of the credit for this decline in the divorce rate, and openly shares credit with all other informational type singles groups in America.
Nevertheless, the CSI information system is the system best designed to help you end up with a partner who is not only your husband or wife, but YOUR LIFETIME FRIEND as well.
Remember, your companionability to your future spouse is the most important factor that there is, in determining your future happiness. The CSI information system, and your careful use of it, has the ability significantly change your life for the better, in ways beyond measure in dollars and cents.
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